Life can feel overwhelming, uncertain, or simply different than it used to. Together, we'll make sense of what's happening in a safe, confidential space, helping you find clarity and move forward with renewed confidence and hope.
I'm Chris Oyston, a registered Clinical Psychologist based in Auckland. I work with young people aged 13 and over, as well as adults, helping them navigate anxiety, depression, trauma, and other challenges that can make life feel difficult. My approach is evidence based, practical, and collaborative, with the goal of creating a space where you can be yourself without feeling judged.
These are some of the concerns I regularly help people navigate. Many people come to therapy without a diagnosis, simply because they know something feels difficult or they want to better understand themselves and make changes.
Including panic attacks, health anxiety, and constant overthinking.
When motivation, sleep, or interest in life have quietly disappeared.
Processing past events that still shape how safe the present feels.
Work pressure, caregiving load, or simply running on empty.
Bereavement, and other losses that don't always get named as grief.
Relationship change, career shifts, ageing, and finding your footing again.
I draw on a small number of well-researched therapies rather than a fixed formula. The approach is shaped around your goals, not the other way round.
Identifying the thought and behaviour patterns that keep anxiety and low mood in place, and building practical alternatives.
Making room for difficult thoughts and feelings while moving toward what actually matters to you.
Building skills in emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and staying present during intense or overwhelming moments.
Practical tools for managing overwhelm and staying grounded in the present moment.
My role isn't to tell you what to do. It's to help you better understand yourself, recognize the patterns that may be keeping you stuck, and support you in making changes that feel right for you.
— Chris Oyston, Clinical PsychologistI trained as a Clinical Psychologist because I wanted to work with people who had reached a point where life felt too difficult to manage on their own. I wanted to do more than listen. I wanted to help people understand what was happening and support them in making meaningful, lasting change.
Before moving into private practice, I worked in public mental health, supporting people across a wide range of psychological difficulties. I have also worked in several countries, giving me the opportunity to support people from many different cultural backgrounds, communities, and life experiences. Those experiences have shaped the way I work and reinforced the importance of understanding each person's story within the context of their relationships, culture, and environment.
I have a keen interest in men's mental health. Throughout my work, I have seen how expectations around strength, independence, and coping can make it difficult for men to ask for support. Too often, help is sought only when the pressure has become overwhelming. My hope is to create a space where reaching out feels like a proactive step rather than a last resort, because meaningful change is often easier when difficulties are addressed early.
Alongside this, I have a particular interest in working with anxiety, depression, trauma, and life transitions, especially with people who appear to be coping well on the outside while struggling privately.
My approach is warm, genuine, and collaborative. I aim to create a space where you feel comfortable being yourself, without fear of judgement. Together, we will make sense of what you are experiencing and use evidence based therapies to help you move towards the changes that matter to you. Therapy is a process, and we will work at a pace that feels right for you.
I work with young people aged 13 and over, through to older adults. I offer appointments in person at Parnell and New Lynn, as well as secure online sessions for clients throughout New Zealand.
Both practice rooms are warm, quiet, and designed to feel more like a comfortable lounge than a clinical office.
In-person appointments are available at either location below, and online sessions are available for clients anywhere in New Zealand.
Fees reflect the expertise, experience and qualifications of a registered Clinical Psychologist. A receipt is provided after payment has been received for insurance and funding claims.
One-on-one therapy sessions for clients aged 13 and up.
Sessions for couples working through relationship difficulties together.
Get in touch and I can help you work out what applies to you. Clients are invoiced after each session.
Yes. Sessions are governed by the Privacy Act and the Health Information Privacy Code — nothing is shared with anyone else without your written permission. The only exception is if there's a serious, immediate risk to your safety or someone else's, in which case I'll always try to talk that through with you first.
It depends entirely on what you're working on. Some people find a few sessions of focused work enough; others prefer ongoing longer-term support. We'll agree on this together after the initial assessment, and review it regularly.
"Psychologist" is a legally protected title in New Zealand — it requires postgraduate clinical training and registration with the NZ Psychologists Board. "Therapist" is a general term used by a range of professionals, including counsellors and coaches, who may have different levels of training.
No — Clinical Psychologists aren't medical doctors and don't prescribe. If medication seems worth considering, I'll discuss this with you and, with your consent, can liaise with your GP or psychiatrist.
Yes — secure video sessions are available for clients anywhere in New Zealand, alongside in-person appointments in Auckland.
Send me a message below, or get in touch directly. I usually respond within 1–2 business days.